This question which seems more like a description of a social problem than an objective question has received only 2 close-votes so far:
A mod clears the bounty and now the bounty has been started again with almost no changes making the question objective.
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comment addedPandya♦ Question is not clear. It looks like you're asking for personal advice which is off-topic here. Go though help center. Bounty has been removed.
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If the mod thought the question was not clear, why wasn't the post immediately closed when the bounty was removed?
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